When you are stopped from seeing your children its heartbraking and distressing but Family mediation can help resolve issues and work out plans to resume child access.
Stopped from having access to your children Addlestone?
When couples go through a difficult separation or divorce, tensions can sometimes run high which may ultimately lead to a breakdown in communication. This can affect not only the adults but the children as well. There may also be situations where one partner may be stopped from having access to the children, either because their ex-spouse is trying to punish them or no longer wants to have contact with them at all.
This can be difficult because the children will likely feel torn between the parents and denied access to someone whom they love. In such situations, family mediation may be of help. A mediator can assist the family by arranging separate times where the children can spend time with each of the parents without the parents having to see each other at all. It may be possible to arrange visitations in a neutral area or to have a third party, such as a mutual friend, arrange for pick up and drop off of the children.
Of course, this type of arrangement is only short-term and eventually the parents will have to communicate in order to make important decisions regarding the children’s future. A mediator may be able to help the parties put aside their differences and reach a common ground to provide stability for themselves and their children. However, if mediation fails, or if one partner is still being denied access to the children, legal intervention may be necessary.
With legal intervention, one or both parties may hire a solicitor to represent them in negotiations regarding child custody and financial settlements. If these negotiations fail to reach a resolution, the courts will get involved at this point. The solicitors will make the appropriate application to court, setting out each parties’ requests, which will be reviewed and settled by a judge. Any decision made by the judge will be handed down as a court order, which is legally binding, and both parties are compelled to obey it.
The judge may hand down a Child Arrangements Order, which dictates with whom the child is to live and the specific terms of visitation rights. Having a case adjudicated by the courts often causes further strain on the relationship as the judge cannot force the parties to be on friendly terms. It may also cause a financial strain as the solicitors will need to be paid for their work. In addition, one party may feel very dissatisfied with the decisions handed down, especially if they did not receive as much visitation rights as they requested.
The good news is that the parties do have the option of returning to mediation as situations change and the children grow older. This may help them to work out their differences and come to an arrangement that benefits everyone.
- Reaching an understanding with the parents – The first thing the grandparents can do, and one that is the most desirable option, is to reach an understanding with the parents. Not only will this ensure that an amicable relationship is maintained with the children, but it will also make things hassle free for everyone.
- Contacting a local family law solicitor Addlestone – If for some unfortunate reason you are not able to build any contact with the parents, or if an agreement cannot be reached, then a family law solicitor should be contacted. This is because a law solicitor will be able to provide you with useful advice and appropriate options which would be okay with both you and the parents.
- Family mediation Addlestone – Finally, whenever possible you should always opt for family mediation. Whenever talks fail, mediation becomes extremely useful in helping reach an understanding. Basically, in mediation what happens is that a mediator or a moderator, who is neutral, meets with the parents and grandparents separately at first in order to evaluate whether or not mediation is going to help this case. If the case is fit for mediation, then everyone is made to attend a joint session. The main purpose of mediation is to help the parties reach and understanding that is suitable for everyone.